DIRT ROAD DISCIPLESHIP
A Quarterly Newsletter from Rural Catholic Youth Ministry
for the Diocese of Winona-Rochester
- YEAR 1 | SPRING -
In this issue...
- Greetings from RCYM!
- Upcoming webinar on rural youth ministry
- Games Highlight: Straddle Ball
- Tilling the Soil: "We don't need a youth group"
- Bosco's Toolbox: The Youth Ministry Tote
- The Youth Minister's Almanac: Life on the Prairie
Greetings from RCYM!
Join us for an introductory webinar!
Whether your parish HAS a youth group, HAD a youth group, or wishes it did: this webinar is for you! Kevin will discuss why youth ministry in rural parishes is not only possible, but powerful. Personal testimony, proven strategies, and positive encouragement will all be provided. At the very least, just let your small-town curiosity get the better of you and come and meet the new guy in town š
Accepting Reality Rurality: Youth Ministry in Small Parishes
May 7, 2026 @ 7:00pm
Event will be hosted in our online community, Bosco’s Garage.
No account required to attend.
GAMES HIGHLIGHT
Straddle Ball
Group Size: 7-25
Duration: 5-30 minutes
Posted by:Ā Samuel Mettler | St. Anthony’s, Watkins, MN
Instructions:
Students just form a big circle with legs spread slightly further than shoulder width apart and try to hit a ball in between other people’s legs. If the ball goes through your leg, you’re out. They just use their arms. Hereās a video of the game being played:
Tilling the Soil
"Only a few kids will show up."
A common phrase I hear when I ask pastors and parish staff if they have a youth group is: āWe would, but only a few kids will show up.ā
I get it: depending upon your parish, you might look around on Sunday and think to yourself, āWhere are the youth?ā And when you look around at bigger parishes with 50 or more kids attending youth group, itās easy to compare and feel…well…small!
But youth ministry is worth it even if a few kids show up…even if one kid shows up! For me, that one kid’s name was Mark.
Bosco's Toolbox
The Youth Ministry Tote
I kept this one tote as my all-purpose youth ministry tote. Basically, it had everything I needed in a pinch to do youth ministry, so allās I had to do was grab it when I was heading off to a youth ministry event.
Hereās what I kept in it:
4 square ball
Air pump w/ needle
Bluetooth speaker
Notebook
A bunch of pencils
Deck of cards
Roll of masking/painterās tape (maybe even two!)
Frisbee (it MUST be a 175g Discraft UltraStar!)
Football
I would have kept a Bible in it, too, but I didnāt have the foresight at the time to find an extra one other than my personal Bible, so I usually just toted that one around.
The Youth Minister's Almanac
Life in the Valley
Experiences like summer camps, mission trips, and youth conferences are often referred to as āmountaintop experiences.ā Whether thatās a reference to Mosesā experience atop Mt. Sinai or a reference to the high one often feels during and after these events, anyone whoās ever planned for one definitely feels as though they are climbing a mountain leading up to it! For a full-time DRE moonlighting in youth ministry, or a part-time youth minister balancing a full-time job with parish duties, or even a volunteer youth minister with barely any time to commit to coordinating such an event, coordinating one of these events can be exhausting.
And because of that, these big summer events a) often constitute the entirety of a youth ministry program in a rural parish, and b) lack follow-up. Time and time again Iāve heard kids say that the basis of their faith-life is the one youth conference they go to every summer, or that one mission trip they fundraise for all year.
But one mountaintop experience per year isnāt enough to keep kids in the Church after they graduate.
And no one lives on the peak of a mountain.
I live on the prairie, and while I will admit that it isnāt perhaps as exciting as life on a mountaintop, its (relatively) predictable weather, rich soil, and gentle slopes make it fertile ground for growing crops…and lots of them. This is the same reason folks live in valleys.
Thatās why my advice to parishes who want to see more fruit out of their youth ministry efforts – but donāt have the bandwidth to commit to any more than one major youth event per year – is to use that event as a launching point for a youth group. The steadiness of a regularly meeting youth group is fertile soil for discipleship to take place. Kids feel like they have a home in your parish, they might even invite their friends from school, and adults have an opportunity to build positive Christian relationships with them (rather than just counting their heads on a bus before and after a big event).
And the value of a young person recognizing your parish as the place they came to know Jesus in the day-to-day is something well-worth the investment.
If you’d like to learn more about how your small, rural parish can bring in a harvest by starting a “simple and sustainable” youth group, let’s set up a time to talk!
JESUS WAS A SMALL-TOWN KID.
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